Q: What goes on at an Impropriety Society party?
A: An Impropriety Society party is like any good party where you can mix and mingle with other like-minded people. Doors open at 9pm. We will have rotating DJs on the dance floor, and adult-oriented performances on stage begin at 10pm. There are many play areas including two open rooms to play in and a dungeon. You can sit and talk or play some naughty games. You can expect to find a group of friendly, and social people. There will be a mix of first timers as well as more experienced attendees. You can partake in as little or as much as you like-it is totally up to YOU. We sincerely hope you will participate by at least watching and by bringing your sexy, positive vibe to the mix. We look forward to seeing your sexy Halloween costumes.

Q: I read that this is a pansexual event. What does pansexual mean?
A: According to the American Heritage Dictionary, pansexual is an adjective that means relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. For the Impropriety Society, the term pansexual means that we are inclusive, and welcome all genders, sexual orientations, and proclivities.

Q: What does my ticket include?
A: Entry into the hottest and most erotic party in town! But please keep in mind, your attendance at this event does not mean that you will get laid. Tickets also include:
  • A chance to meet, mix, mingle and play with sexy, like-minded people who are looking for the same type of fun as you!
  • Condoms and lube.
  • A dungeon area equipped with both a single and double-sided St. Andrew's cross, spanking benches, stocks, a bondage chair, with trained staff monitors to hold the sacred space we will all help create.
  • Spaces for cuddling and whatever else you can create.
  • Yummy appetizers and bottled water.
  • Djs playing sexy grooves for the dance floor.
  • Hot sexy performances.
  • Friendly, caring hosts and staff to help make your night the best it can be!
All you need to bring is an open mind and a sexy attitude.

Q: How many people will be at the party?
A: There are 250 tickets for sale. The party will sell out, so get your tickets early!

Q: What should I wear?
A: Please plan on arriving to and leaving from the party wearing street-appropriate attire. Once you arrive, there will be space to change into your sexy outfit if needed. At the party, you should wear whatever makes you feel sexy, comfortable, and beautiful.

Fun suggestions for attire include: sexy PJ's or nighties, thongs, boots, heels, silks, lace, lingerie, uniforms, smoking jackets, kilts, corsets, feathers, little boy/girl, leather, latex, PVC, nude, body paint, saran wrap, liquid latex, faux fur, rubber, vintage, fetish glam, fantasy, celebrity.

Q: What is the break down of age, gender, and orientation?
A: All party attendees must be at least 21 years old; IDs will be checked at the door, and no exceptions will be made to this rule. There are only 200 tickets for sale, so if you want your sexy friends to be at the party, you should encourage them buy their tickets now! Aside from the minimum age requirement, it is impossible to predict the demographics of any given event. This being said, we anticipate there to be a fairly representative slice of sex-positive and passion curious Humboldt County.

Q: Are singles welcome? Should I bring a partner?
A: Singles, couples, and more complex groups are all welcome. As with any party, it is nice to know folks, but if you come alone and are friendly and social, you will soon make friends. So please feel free to bring friends, partners, or your hot, joyful self.

Q: What type of play is allowed?
A: Pretty much anything between consenting adults goes at Impropriety Society party, with the exception of activities involving urine and fecal matter. This includes but is not limited to kissing, fondling, fucking, wrestling, spanking, whipping, paddling, scratching, tickling, etc. Play involving blood, sharps, or wax is allowed only by prior permission from the Dungeon Master.

Q: Do I have to play?
A: Absolutely not! You do not have to play unless you freely want to and consent to play! Impropriety Society events are not a "free for all"-there is no expectation for anyone to participate in anything. By attending, you are contributing your own unique energies to the creation of a sex positive space in which you are free to express and explore your sexuality to whatever degree is comfortable and fun for you. Consent is one of the fundamental, ethical values of The Impropriety Society. Put simply, you never have to do anything you do not want to do. If, at any time, you feel that you are being coerced or forced to do something that you do not want to do then you should immediately approach a Staff Member and make them aware of the situation.

There will be a no-sex area available for your relaxation or processing needs. Feel free at any time to take a break from the action, chill, and realign yourself to the vibe.

Q: Is it ok for me to watch other people?
A: Yes, DEFINITELY! Respectful voyeurism is totally acceptable. By respectful, we mean that you maintain an appropriate distance away from those you are watching. By appropriate, we mean a distance that allows playing participants to not feel encroached upon, and not talking to engaged parties or other observers in such a way that will be disruptive to the scene you are observing. That would, after all, defeat the purpose. In addition, dungeon play spaces will be clearly marked, and when a scene is happening in a marked play space, you may not enter the space unless participants have clearly invited you to do so.

It is perfectly acceptable to come to the party and just watch what's going on. In fact, at your first party, we recommend that you plan to watch, socialize, and become comfortable with the environment. Just remember that you do not have to play until you are completely comfortable with the atmosphere and the people around you. If you see something that makes you uncomfortable you turn away or go to another area of the party. Feel free to go to a Staff Member and bring the situation to their attention, but you are not allowed to directly interfere with a scene at any time.

Q: If I do play, will people watch me?
A: More than likely!!! Exhibitionism and voyeurism are a huge aspect of the fun and titillation at sex-positive parties and are totally permissible and encouraged as long it does not interfere with other players. If you decide to play, it is up to you where you do it, whether it is in the middle of the room or in a cozy little nook in the corner. Note that it is highly probable that someone will see you and/or watch you. If you want total privacy, come to the Impropriety Society party to get worked up, and then work it out with your lover(s) at home!

Q: What do I do if no one wants to play with me?
A: This question comes up often, so you're not alone if you share this concern. Please keep in mind that your attendance at this event does not mean that you will get laid, or that someone will play with you. The Impropriety Society provides a safe space for people to experiment with and explore making requests and extending invitations, as well as a safe space to experience and explore rejection. If you do not find someone to play with, do not take it personally...after all, you are not attracted to everyone at the party either!

Q: What about safe sex?
A: The use of condoms and other barriers is highly encouraged at all Impropriety Society events. We encourage and promote "safer sex" practices by supplying condoms and lube. Ultimately, it is each person's responsibility to participate in the type of sexual activities and contact that are most in line with their values and life needs. Any guest trying to force others to have unsafe sex should be reported to a Staff Member immediately. They will be asked to leave at once, and will not be invited back. The Impropriety Society recommends regular STD screening for anyone with multiple sex partners for the sake of their own health and well-being.

Q: Can people come and go during the party?
A: No. We do not want guests coming and going throughout the night. Doors close at 1:00am. The reason for this is that the creation of this delicious space is altered by this activity. If you must go to your car for something, and want to come back into the party, you must have a security escort. Guests can leave at any time, and need not feel obligated to stay until the 6am closing time.

Q: What about privacy and confidentiality?
A: Confidentiality is a concern to almost everyone who attends an adult-oriented event or gathering. What you choose to reveal about yourself is largely a matter of personal judgment, although most people err on the side of caution until they get to know other individuals as well as the collective group. The Impropriety Society is not a "secret society"; however, while many people who attend an event choose to be completely open about their interests, many do not. It is important not to make any assumptions about a person's openness with the general public, to be discrete, and to be respectful of each individual's personal choices. Be especially cautious about approaching someone you have met at an Impropriety Society event at another outside setting (such as a shopping mall). Please also remember that who attends and what happens at the event is private and should not be discussed with those who did not attend. These events are meant to serve the community; that means that as a community, we will make choices that create a safe space in which we might, again and again, share amazing times and spaces together.

If you have any questions or concerns that are not covered in the FAQs above, please feel welcome to contact us at www.humboldtimps.com.